[FEA] Cross Join should handle RetryOOM exceptions

[jbrennan333]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
This is a follow-on to the work done for #7255. The CrossJoinIterator derives from AbstractGpuJoinIterator, but overrides setupNextGatherer, so it does not benefit from the changes related to creating the gatherer. It does benefit from the changes related to gatherNext, getting the next batch from the gatherer.

We should add OOM retries to handle the createGatherer case in CrossJoinIterator.

Describe the solution you'd like
This work should be very similar to what was done for #7255. Add withRetry blocks to handle cases where we may be doing large allocations.

[jbrennan333]

This is not needed. CrossJoinIterator does not do any GPU allocations while setting up the gatherer.
All of the work is done in BaseCrossJoinGatherMap.toColumnView, which is part of the gatherNext processing, and is covered by the changes to AbstractGpuJoinIterator.nextCbFromGatherer in #7930. Closing this one.