Add any TransactionExecutionListener beans to the auto-configured transaction manager

[wilkinsona]

Suggestion from Juergen:

Boot could automatically inject any TransactionExecutionListener beans in the context into a PlatformTransactionManager or ReactiveTransactionManager that it configures, along the following lines:

@Bean
public JdbcTransactionManager transactionManager(DataSource dataSource, Collection<TransactionExecutionListener transactionExecutionListeners) {
   JdbcTransactionManager tm = new JdbcTransactionManager();
   tm.setDataSource(dataSource);
   tm.setTransactionExecutionListeners(transactionExecutionListeners);
   return tm;
}

[snicoll]

I'd like to fix #36801 before going forward as I implemented it as a customizer which make the problem more apparent.