[FEA] Sanity checks for cudf jar mismatch

[jlowe]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
There have been a number of cases reported recently where users are inadvertently matching an incorrect version of cudf with the plugin. It would be nice if the plugin could detect these mismatches and report them directly rather than crashing with NoSuchMethodError exceptions or other weird behaviors.

Describe the solution you'd like
The plugin should leverage the cudf Java build details feature requested at rapidsai/cudf#6229

Describe alternatives you've considered
We could walk the jars on the classpath looking for the cudf jar and parse it's name to try to extract build details, but this is problematic. For example, the user could have repackaged the plugin and cudf jars into an aggregate jar that appears to be neither the plugin nor the cudf jar by its name.