feat(hooks-server): support import from React 18

[Haroenv]

Summary

Import both react-dom/server.js (react 16 and 17) and react-dom/server (react 18, since they added "exports" in package.json) dynamically to make sure server-side rendering works in all situations

Result

fixes #3453
FX-1405

I don't see how this can be tested immediately, but we can add a react 18 next.js example later along the existing react 17 one, which would fail before this PR

We were slightly worried this may hurt TTFB, but in reality that doesn't seem to be the case, as evidenced by a quick benchmark (using https://github.com/mildsunrise/curl-benchmark) done:

Before the change:

              DNS      TCP        SSL  Request           Content
     Code  lookup  connect  handshake     sent    TTFB  download
     min:     9.0      0.0        0.0      0.0    52.0       0.0
     avg:    14.4      0.3        0.0      0.1    83.2       0.4
     med:    15.0      0.0        0.0      0.0    76.0       0.0
     max:    21.0      1.0        0.0      1.0   203.0       1.0
     dev:   23.2%   160.4%       0.0%   339.1%   35.3%    133.3%
           requests: 25    samples: 25    failures: 0

After the change:

              DNS      TCP        SSL  Request           Content
     Code  lookup  connect  handshake     sent    TTFB  download
     min:    10.0      0.0        0.0      0.0    44.0       0.0
     avg:    15.7      0.3        0.0      0.1    72.4       0.3
     med:    16.0      0.0        0.0      0.0    63.0       0.0
     max:    24.0      1.0        0.0      1.0   220.0       1.0
     dev:   23.0%   152.8%       0.0%   374.2%   51.6%    165.8%
           requests: 30    samples: 30    failures: 0 

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[sarahdayan]

Clean!

[sarahdayan]

Not sure why the CI is failing as if one of the modules was present, it passes locally.

[Haroenv]

Not sure what happens, I hope the test isn't flaky (it isn't on my machine), but in the second run after those wording changes were made it did pass @sarahdayan

[sarahdayan]

Okay that's odd, but could be a cache issue on Circle maybe? I guess we can move forward and we'll see soon enough if the test is flaky or not.

[Haroenv]

I've just confirmed that this works as expected in a fresh next app with react 18: https://codesandbox.io/s/nqhmo4 (before I tested within the monorepo)