[RIP-70-3]Extract adaptive lock mechanism

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Which Issue(s) This PR Fixes

Fixes #8442

Brief Description

How Did You Test This Change?

Test document ：https://shimo.im/docs/ZzkLMQ4RwwUa87AQ/

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 71.79487% with 33 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 47.49%. Comparing base (5496807) to head (8b98e66).
Report is 23 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...g/apache/rocketmq/store/lock/AdaptiveLockImpl.java	77.61%	13 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...ache/rocketmq/store/lock/CollisionRetreatLock.java	74.35%	8 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...ache/rocketmq/store/config/MessageStoreConfig.java	25.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
...a/org/apache/rocketmq/store/lock/AdaptiveLock.java	0.00%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##             develop    #8663      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage      47.42%   47.49%   +0.06%     
- Complexity     11514    11558      +44     
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  Files           1277     1282       +5     
  Lines          89438    89679     +241     
  Branches       11502    11533      +31     
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+ Hits           42416    42591     +175     
- Misses         41812    41851      +39     
- Partials        5210     5237      +27     

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