feat(node): Allow to configure maxSpanWaitDuration

[mydea]

This adds a new config option for @sentry/node, maxSpanWaitDuration.

By configuring this, you can define how long the SDK waits for a finished spans parent span to be finished before we discard this.

Today, this defaults to 5 min, so if a span is finished and its parent span is not finished within 5 minutes, the child span will be discarded. We do this to avoid memory leaks, as parent spans may be dropped/lost and thus child spans would be kept in memory forever.

However, if you actually have very long running spans, they may be incorrectly dropped due to this. So now, you can configure your SDK to have a longer wait duration.

Fixes #12491

[github-actions]

size-limit report 📦

Path	Size
@sentry/browser	22.04 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Tracing)	33.23 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Tracing, Replay)	68.95 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Tracing, Replay) - with treeshaking flags	62.27 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Tracing, Replay with Canvas)	73.02 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Tracing, Replay, Feedback)	85.17 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Tracing, Replay, Feedback, metrics)	87.01 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. metrics)	26.23 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. Feedback)	38.24 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. sendFeedback)	26.63 KB (0%)
@sentry/browser (incl. FeedbackAsync)	31.18 KB (0%)
@sentry/react	24.81 KB (0%)
@sentry/react (incl. Tracing)	36.27 KB (0%)
@sentry/vue	26.05 KB (0%)
@sentry/vue (incl. Tracing)	35.08 KB (0%)
@sentry/svelte	22.17 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle	23.39 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle (incl. Tracing)	34.91 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle (incl. Tracing, Replay)	69.02 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle (incl. Tracing, Replay, Feedback)	74.15 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle - uncompressed	68.71 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle (incl. Tracing) - uncompressed	103.3 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle (incl. Tracing, Replay) - uncompressed	213.75 KB (0%)
CDN Bundle (incl. Tracing, Replay, Feedback) - uncompressed	226.21 KB (0%)
@sentry/nextjs (client)	35.63 KB (0%)
@sentry/sveltekit (client)	33.86 KB (0%)
@sentry/node	111.98 KB (+0.03% 🔺)
@sentry/node - without tracing	89.46 KB (+0.04% 🔺)
@sentry/aws-serverless	98.52 KB (+0.04% 🔺)

[AbhiPrasad]

Needs docs changes too!