deps: update c-ares to 1.20.1

LICENSE

@@ -78,19 +78,30 @@ The externally maintained libraries used by Node.js are:
 
 - c-ares, located at deps/cares, is licensed as follows:
   """
-    Copyright (c) 2007 - 2018, Daniel Stenberg with many contributors, see AUTHORS
+    MIT License
+
+    Copyright (c) 1998 Massachusetts Institute of Technology
+    Copyright (c) 2007 - 2023 Daniel Stenberg with many contributors, see AUTHORS
     file.
 
-    Copyright 1998 by the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.
+    Permission is hereby granted, free of charge, to any person obtaining a copy of
+    this software and associated documentation files (the "Software"), to deal in
+    the Software without restriction, including without limitation the rights to
+    use, copy, modify, merge, publish, distribute, sublicense, and/or sell copies of
+    the Software, and to permit persons to whom the Software is furnished to do so,
+    subject to the following conditions:
+
+    The above copyright notice and this permission notice (including the next
+    paragraph) shall be included in all copies or substantial portions of the
+    Software.
 
-    Permission to use, copy, modify, and distribute this software and its
-    documentation for any purpose and without fee is hereby granted, provided that
-    the above copyright notice appear in all copies and that both that copyright
-    notice and this permission notice appear in supporting documentation, and that
-    the name of M.I.T. not be used in advertising or publicity pertaining to
-    distribution of the software without specific, written prior permission.
-    M.I.T. makes no representations about the suitability of this software for any
-    purpose.  It is provided "as is" without express or implied warranty.
+    THE SOFTWARE IS PROVIDED "AS IS", WITHOUT WARRANTY OF ANY KIND, EXPRESS OR
+    IMPLIED, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO THE WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY,
+    FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE AND NONINFRINGEMENT. IN NO EVENT SHALL THE
+    AUTHORS OR COPYRIGHT HOLDERS BE LIABLE FOR ANY CLAIM, DAMAGES OR OTHER
+    LIABILITY, WHETHER IN AN ACTION OF CONTRACT, TORT OR OTHERWISE, ARISING FROM,
+    OUT OF OR IN CONNECTION WITH THE SOFTWARE OR THE USE OR OTHER DEALINGS IN THE
+    SOFTWARE.
   """
 
 - cjs-module-lexer, located at deps/cjs-module-lexer, is licensed as follows: