planner: support no_hash_join hint on optimizer (#45538)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #45538

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #45520

Problem Summary: planner: support no_hash_join hint on optimizer

What is changed and how it works?

planner: support no_hash_join hint on optimizer

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2023-07-28 08:26:13.893501613 +0000 UTC m=+515716.488032604: ☑️ agreed by hawkingrei.
• 2023-07-28 08:42:24.35276602 +0000 UTC m=+516686.947297009: ☑️ agreed by time-and-fate.

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