feat: use parallel jobs in github actions

[tobeycodes]

• This does not necessarily speed up builds but does run jobs post build in parallel
• There are more ways to optimize these Github actions, which I can do in follow up PRs
• Windows is slow on the build step and integration test step. Some options:
  • Optimize the way build happens so Turborepo can run in a more parallel way
  • Optimize the underlying build
  • Optimize/review how cores/memory are being used efficiently
  • Find ways to skip when possible
  • Use larger windows runners (https://docs.github.com/en/actions/using-github-hosted-runners/using-larger-runners/about-larger-runners)
• I might have been a bit excessive on the ci-common.yml steps as I am not familiar enough with what is needed and what isn't for each step. I am sure that some jobs could have more simplified steps